Why Is Masturbation A Sin? Exploring The Truth

Masturbation: Is it a sin? This is a question pondered by many, and WHY.EDU.VN aims to provide clarity through scriptural analysis and logical reasoning. We delve into the nuances of sexual desire, fantasy, and the concept of sin, offering a balanced perspective. Delve into discussions around sexual purity, carnal desires and self-gratification.

Table of Contents

1. Defining Sin: What Does The Bible Say?
2. Examining The Arguments Against Masturbation
3. Addressing Concerns About Addiction
4. Understanding Gratifying the Flesh
5. Dissecting Lust and Sexual Fantasies
6. God’s Plan for Sex: Perversion or Natural Expression?
7. The Influence of Pornography: A Sinful Link?
8. The Role of Conscience in Determining Sin
9. Christ in Us: A Reason to Abstain?
10. Personal Revelation: God’s Direct Guidance
11. Crucifying the Flesh: A Call to Mortification
12. The Story of Onan: A Misunderstood Passage
13. The Effects of Masturbation on Marriage
14. Uncleanness: A Matter of Ritual or Sin?
15. Scriptural References: Direct or Indirect?
16. The Fear of Demonic Influence
17. Navigating Sexual Temptations
18. Practical Tips for Maintaining Sexual Purity
19. Seeking Professional Help
20. FAQ: Addressing Common Questions

1. Defining Sin: What Does The Bible Say?

The concept of sin is central to many religious and ethical frameworks. Understanding its definition is crucial before examining specific behaviors. Generally, sin is defined as transgression against divine law. Easton’s Bible Dictionary defines sin as disobedience to God’s commands, laws, or wishes. It’s a rebellion against God caused by self-centered thoughts, desires, or motives, leading to outward acts that are manifestations of sin. The Holman Bible Dictionary echoes this, emphasizing disobedience and rebellion against God’s will.

Disobedience: Acting contrary to God’s explicit commands.
Rebellion: A conscious rejection of God’s authority and will.
Self-Centeredness: Prioritizing personal desires over God’s principles.

Examining this, if the Bible explicitly forbids an action, performing that action constitutes sin. However, actions not explicitly addressed require careful consideration of underlying principles and potential harm. Explore resources at WHY.EDU.VN for deeper insights into biblical teachings.

2. Examining The Arguments Against Masturbation

Many arguments against masturbation stem from religious, moral, and philosophical perspectives. These arguments often suggest that masturbation is inherently sinful or harmful. WHY.EDU.VN offers a critical analysis of these claims.

Common Arguments:

Argument	Basis
Addiction	Potential for compulsive behavior
Gratifying the Flesh	Focus on physical pleasure
Sexual Fantasies	Potential for lustful thoughts
Perversion of God’s Plan	Deviation from procreation
Pornography Usage	Association with explicit content
Conscience	Feelings of guilt or discomfort
“Christ in Us”	Incompatibility with Christ’s nature
Personal Revelation	Belief that God has directed them to abstain
Crucifying the Flesh	Necessity to suppress earthly desires
The Story of Onan	Misinterpretation of biblical narrative
Negative Impact on Marriage	Potential for dissatisfaction or detachment
Uncleanness	Misunderstanding of ceremonial purity laws
Involves Sex with Demons	Lacks Scriptural Support

Each of these arguments requires careful examination of scriptural context, ethical implications, and potential consequences. By understanding the basis of these concerns, individuals can make informed decisions aligned with their beliefs and values.

3. Addressing Concerns About Addiction

Addiction is a significant concern in various aspects of life, including sexuality. It’s essential to distinguish between healthy behaviors and compulsive ones. The argument that masturbation is a sin due to the potential for addiction is flawed because addiction is the issue, not the act itself. Numerous individuals struggle with addictions to pornography, sex, masturbation, drugs, alcohol, food, gambling, and so on. If you have an addiction, please talk to a pastor or search online for “Christian help for ________ addiction.”

Key Considerations:

Compulsive Behavior: When masturbation becomes an uncontrollable urge, negatively impacting daily life and relationships.
Negative Consequences: When the behavior leads to distress, anxiety, or harm to oneself or others.
Seeking Help: When addiction symptoms are present, professional counseling or support groups can provide guidance and strategies for recovery.

If people become addicted to marital sex then it’s the addiction that’s wrong, not marital sex. In exactly the same way, if people become addicted to masturbation then it’s the addiction that’s wrong, not masturbation. The Bible never says that masturbation is a sin. Many definitions also include the issue of sexual thoughts, desires, urges, or behaviors impacting one’s life in a negative way, and this seems to be the key factor.

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4. Understanding Gratifying the Flesh

The phrase “gratifying the flesh” often carries negative connotations, implying indulgence in sinful desires. However, the Bible doesn’t condemn all forms of physical pleasure. The sin is in the method that we use to gratify the flesh (such as adultery). If we can prove from the Bible that masturbation is a wrong method for gratifying the flesh, then masturbation would be a sin. But the argument that masturbation is done for the purpose of gratifying the flesh doesn’t mean anything because gratifying the flesh is not sinful in itself.

For example, when you scratch an itch then you’re gratifying the flesh. When you eat or drink something (in moderation) because it tastes good or because you’re hungry or thirsty then you’re gratifying the flesh. When a husband and wife make love and experience physical or emotional pleasure then they’re gratifying the flesh. These things are not sins, so gratifying the flesh is not sinful in itself.

Biblical Context:

Romans 13:14: “Rather, clothe yourselves with the Lord Jesus Christ, and do not think about how to gratify the desires of the sinful nature.”
Galatians 5:16: “So I say, live by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the sinful nature.”
Ephesians 2:3: “All of us also lived among them at one time, gratifying the cravings of our sinful nature and following its desires and thoughts.”
1 Peter 2:11: “Dear friends, I urge you, as foreigners and exiles, to abstain from sinful desires, which wage war against your soul.”

These verses caution against indulging in sinful cravings and desires, but they do not inherently condemn all physical pleasures. The key lies in discerning whether the desire aligns with God’s will and principles.

5. Dissecting Lust and Sexual Fantasies

Lust, as described in the Bible, is an intense, often uncontrolled, desire for sexual gratification. The primary concern surrounding masturbation is its potential association with lustful thoughts and sexual fantasies. The article points out that Jesus desired food at times, He desired water at times, He desired rest at times, and so on, showing that the desires of the body, the flesh, are not always evil (which is true). The article then correctly says that “what makes the desires of the flesh evil and dangerous is when they cross over from being innocent wishes for food and drink and rest, or any legitimate pleasure, into the service of the rebellious human self…[D]esires, therefore, become destructive when they are disconnected from the will of God.“

So the issue is whether masturbation is a legitimate pleasure or whether it’s a service of the rebellious human self and disconnected from the will of God. As we’ll see throughout this article, the Bible never says, implies, or even hints that masturbation is wrong or sinful. Therefore, if masturbation is not done improperly (as described throughout this article), then it’s not rebelling against anything in Scripture and it’s not disconnected from or against the will of God. This means that it’s a legitimate pleasure, not a service of the rebellious human self.

Matthew 5:27-28:

You have heard that it was said, ‘Do not commit adultery.’ But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.

Coveting: To desire wrongfully or excessively something that belongs to another.
Intent: The conscious aim or objective of a person’s actions.
Earnest Desire: A sincere and intense longing.

Sexual desires and sexual fantasies are not the same as lusting (because sexual lusting involves an earnest desire to carry out a sexual sin), and we can see that sex can be done without lusting, and we can see that masturbation can be done without lusting. In the entire Bible, it never says that masturbation is a sin.

When we understand what lust means in the Bible (described above), then we can see that sexual desires and sexual fantasies are not the same as lusting (because sexual lusting involves an earnest desire to carry out a sexual sin), and we can see that sex can be done without lusting, and we can see that masturbation can be done without lusting. In the entire Bible, it never says that masturbation is a sin.

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6. God’s Plan for Sex: Perversion or Natural Expression?

Some argue that masturbation perverts God’s plan for sex, which is primarily intended for procreation and marital intimacy. But if we’re willing to be objective in order to honor God, then it’s easy to see that this argument starts off by assuming that masturbation is a sin.

Evaluating the Claim:

Biblical Basis: Does the Bible explicitly state that masturbation is a perversion of God’s plan?
Alternative Perspectives: Can masturbation be viewed as a natural expression of sexuality within certain contexts?
Marital Implications: How does masturbation affect marital relationships and sexual satisfaction?

The Bible does not say that homosexuality is a sin or that it perverts God’s plan for sex (see my article called Homosexuality Is Not Always a Sin), so again, even though only one gender is involved when a person masturbates by themself, this does not mean that masturbation is a sin. The Bible never says, implies, or even hints that masturbation is a sin or that it perverts God’s plan for sex.

7. The Influence of Pornography: A Sinful Link?

The association between masturbation and pornography is a significant concern. Pornography often objectifies individuals, promotes unrealistic expectations, and can lead to addiction. Sometimes people claim that masturbation is a sin because there’s a possibility of using pornography. But it’s easy to see that the flaw in this argument is the same as the flaw in the argument about addiction.

Considerations:

Objectification: Viewing individuals as objects for sexual gratification.
Addiction: The potential for compulsive pornography consumption.
Unrealistic Expectations: Developing distorted views of sex and relationships.

There are numerous types of pornography, so it might be acceptable to God for a person to look at some types but not other types. In fact, God might allow one person to look at a certain type of pornography but not allow another person to look at it, because God knows whether or not it will have a harmful or negative impact on each person.

The safest thing to do is to avoid pornography altogether, but if you want to look at pornography then the only way you’re going to know if it’s acceptable to God is to ask Him.

8. The Role of Conscience in Determining Sin

Conscience plays a crucial role in ethical decision-making. Feelings of guilt or discomfort can indicate a violation of personal values or moral standards. Another argument that people sometimes make against masturbation is that it bothers people’s conscience, and therefore it’s a sin. This is a good point because if God is prompting you in your conscience about masturbation then He’s probably telling you not to do it.

Navigating Conscience:

Self-Reflection: Examining the source of guilt or discomfort.
Seeking Guidance: Consulting religious leaders, mentors, or counselors.
Scriptural Alignment: Ensuring that moral standards align with biblical principles.

Consider that the New Testament neither condones nor condemns having bare arms (such as wearing a short-sleeve shirt). It’s a non-issue in the New Testament. We’re never commanded not to do it, and no one in the New Testament was ever chastised for doing it. In exactly the same way, the Bible neither condones nor condemns masturbation. It’s a non-issue in the Bible. We’re never commanded not to do it, and no one in the Bible was ever chastised for doing it.

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9. Christ in Us: A Reason to Abstain?

The concept of “Christ in us,” as described in Colossians 1:27, suggests that believers should strive to live in accordance with Christ’s nature. Christians should not have bare arms because the Bible says to honor God with our body and not to offer the parts of our body to sin.

Implications:

Holiness: Striving for moral purity and righteousness.
Conformity: Aligning thoughts, actions, and desires with Christ’s teachings.
Sanctification: The process of becoming more like Christ over time.

They can’t show you that because the Bible never says that. In exactly the same way, when someone says “Christians should not masturbate because the Bible says to honor God with our body and not to offer the parts of our body to sin” (or similar statements), we can reply “Show me where the Bible says that masturbation would be dishonoring God with our body or offering any parts of our body to sin.” They can’t show you that because the Bible never says that.

10. Personal Revelation: God’s Direct Guidance

Some individuals claim that God has directly communicated with them, instructing them to abstain from masturbation. Certainly it would be a sin for you to masturbate if God has forbidden you to do it, but it’s not a sin for everyone unless the Bible has forbidden it for everyone.

Discernment:

Scriptural Consistency: Does the revelation align with established biblical teachings?
Humility: Approaching claims of divine guidance with caution and openness.
Community Counsel: Seeking input from trusted religious leaders and fellow believers.

Many of those videos show terrifying images of people being tormented by demons in hell, and they contain terrifying descriptions of visions or dreams that those people say they had concerning Christians being tormented in hell for masturbating.

I have no doubt that all of those people are sincere and well-meaning, but those videos are all completely unscriptural and completely wrong for these reasons:

Those videos contain zero Scripture passages which say that masturbation is a sin. Many of them don’t mention any Scripture passages at all, but the videos that do have Scripture passages, if you look closely at those passages then you’ll see that they say absolutely nothing at all about masturbation.

11. Crucifying the Flesh: A Call to Mortification

The concept of “crucifying the flesh” is found in Galatians 5:24, which states, “Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the sinful nature with its passions and desires.” The argument against masturbation is that we’re told to put to death whatever belongs to our earthly nature.

Interpretation:

Sinful Nature: The inherent tendency towards sin and rebellion against God.
Passions and Desires: Intense emotions and cravings that can lead to sinful behavior.
Mortification: The process of putting to death sinful desires and actions.

The sin is in the method that we use for fulfilling our needs and desires. For example, the sin of sexual immorality or impurity is when we have sex in a way that violates Scripture, such as adultery. Notice that the above passages don’t tell us that adultery is a sin, but instead we must look elsewhere in Scripture to find out if the desire for adultery is something that needs to be put to death. In exactly the same way, the above passages don’t tell us that masturbation is a sin, but instead we must look elsewhere in Scripture to find out if the desire for masturbation is something that needs to be put to death. Again, the Bible never says, implies, or even hints that masturbation is a sin.

12. The Story of Onan: A Misunderstood Passage

The story of Onan in Genesis 38:6-10 is often cited in discussions about masturbation. By law or custom, it was Onan’s duty to marry his dead brother’s widow and to provide offspring who would carry on his dead brother’s name.

Context:

Judah got a wife for Er, his firstborn, and her name was Tamar. But Er, Judah’s firstborn, was wicked in the Lord’s sight; so the LORD put him to death. Then Judah said to Onan, “Lie with your brother’s wife and fulfill your duty to her as a brother-in-law to produce offspring for your brother.” But Onan knew that the offspring would not be his; so whenever he lay with his brother’s wife, he spilled his semen on the ground to keep from producing offspring for his brother. What he did was wicked in the Lord’s sight; so he put him to death also.

Notice that Onan did not masturbate, but instead he slept with his dead brother’s widow as was his duty. However, because of his wicked and greedy heart, he deliberately prevented her from conceiving any children because they would have been his dead brother’s heirs and not Onan’s heirs. This is the sin for which the Lord put Onan to death; it had nothing to do with masturbating.

This was an established custom or law, as the above commentaries point out, and it was Onan’s duty to marry (or sleep with) his dead brother’s widow. Onan was not masturbating in the above passage, but instead he was having legitimate sexual intercourse according to his duty. However, he was rebellious against his duty by not providing offspring for his dead brother, and God put him to death because of his wicked and greedy heart, not because of masturbating.

13. The Effects of Masturbation on Marriage

The impact of masturbation on marriage is a complex issue with varying perspectives. While some argue that it can lead to dissatisfaction or detachment, others suggest it can enhance intimacy and reduce conflict. Other arguments that people sometimes make against masturbation are based on the assumption that it will have a negative effect on marriage, which is certainly possible.

Potential Benefits:

Reduced Conflict: Can help level out different sexual needs, reducing arguments.
Enhanced Intimacy: Can help couples discover what they like, leading to better communication.
Reduced Likelihood of Affair: Curbs appetite when spouses are apart.

Potential Drawbacks:

Dissatisfaction: May lead to decreased interest in marital sex.
Secrecy: Can create distance and mistrust if not discussed openly.

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14. Uncleanness: A Matter of Ritual or Sin?

The concept of “uncleanness” in the Old Testament, particularly in Leviticus 15:16 and 15:32, often raises questions about its implications for sexual behavior.

When a man has an emission of semen, he must bathe his whole body with water, and he will be unclean till evening.

These are the regulations for a man with a discharge, for anyone made unclean by an emission of semen

Understanding Uncleanness:

Ceremonial: Pertaining to religious rituals and observances.
Ritual Purity: The state of being fit to participate in religious ceremonies.

So under the Law of Moses, being “unclean” was not the same as being a sinner. Leviticus 15:16 and 15:32 (above) were part of the Law of Moses, and they might be referring to masturbation, or a “nocturnal emission” (sometimes called a “wet dream”), or sex, or all of these, we just don’t know. However, notice that there’s no condemnation associated with it, just as there’s no condemnation associated with properly handling a dead body or giving birth.

Under the Law of Moses, the Jews were not allowed to come into God’s presence (e.g., into the Temple) if they were ceremonially unclean. This did not necessarily mean that they had sinned because it was possible to become ceremonially unclean through events that were perfectly normal or good or proper.

15. Scriptural References: Direct or Indirect?

The Bible never directly mentions masturbation. I’ve heard that the Jewish expression, “covering one’s feet,” comes from the practice of standing up while masturbating in a private place. I haven’t been able to verify if this is true or not, but the euphemism, “covering one’s feet,” is translated as “relieving himself” in two places in the NIV.

Judges 3:20-24:

Ehud then approached him while he was sitting alone in the upper room of his summer palace and said, “I have a message from God for you.” As the king rose from his seat, Ehud reached with his left hand, drew the sword from his right thigh and plunged it into the king’s belly. Even the handle sank in after the blade, which came out his back. Ehud did not pull the sword out, and the fat closed in over it. Then Ehud went out to the porch ; he shut the doors of the upper room behind him and locked them. After he had gone, the servants came and found the doors of the upper room locked. They said, “He must be relieving himself in the inner room of the house.”

1 Samuel 24:3-4

He came to the sheep pens along the way; a cave was there, and Saul went in to relieve himself. David and his men were far back in the cave. The men said, “This is the day the LORD spoke of when he said to you, ‘I will give your enemy into your hands for you to deal with as you wish.'” Then David crept up unnoticed and cut off a corner of Saul’s robe.

These two passages might be describing the simple act of going to the bathroom, or possibly taking a nap, but I’ve included them for the sake of thoroughness because they might be scriptural examples of masturbation. Sometimes people point out that Eglon and Saul (in the above passages) weren’t God-fearing men at that point, so if they did something sinful then it wouldn’t have bothered them very much. However, this doesn’t change the fact that there’s no condemnation attached to whatever they were doing, nor is there any condemnation attached to masturbation anywhere in the entire Bible.

Apart from those passages, the Bible never mentions masturbation at all. Try doing a computer search in any version of the Bible, and you won’t find any form of the word “masturbation” (or similar terms such as “self-pleasuring”) anywhere in the Bible.

16. The Fear of Demonic Influence

Some individuals believe that masturbation can open the door to demonic influence or spiritual attack. I’ve seen several websites which say that masturbation involves sex with demons. A few of them have no Scripture passages at all to justify their view, and the rest show some Scripture passages (many of which we’ve examined in this article) without even trying to understand what those passages actually say.

The closest thing to someone possibly having sex with demons in the Bible is in Genesis 6:1-8, which says that “the sons of God” married and impregnated “the daughters of men”:

Now it came to pass, when men began to multiply on the face of the earth, and daughters were born to them, that the sons of God saw the daughters of men, that they were beautiful; and they took wives for themselves of all whom they chose. And the LORD said, “My Spirit shall not strive with man forever, for he is indeed flesh; yet his days shall be one hundred and twenty years.” There were giants on the earth in those days, and also afterward, when the sons of God came in to the daughters of men and they bore children to them. Those were the mighty men who were of old, men of renown. Then the LORD saw that the wickedness of man was great in the earth, and that every intent of the thoughts of his heart was only evil continually. And the LORD was sorry that He had made man on the earth, and He was grieved in His heart. So the LORD said, “I will destroy man whom I have created from the face of the earth, both man and beast, creeping thing and birds of the air, for I am sorry that I have made them.” But Noah found grace in the eyes of the LORD.

Analyzing the Claim:

Scriptural Support: Are there explicit biblical passages linking masturbation to demonic activity?
Spiritual Warfare: Understanding the nature of spiritual battles and how to resist evil influences.
Protection: How can believers guard themselves against spiritual attacks?

The devil might try to tempt us into sexual sins, and perhaps sexual sins can give the devil a foothold to demonize a person, but there’s not a shred of scriptural evidence that masturbation is a sin or that masturbation involves sex with demons.

17. Navigating Sexual Temptations

Sexual temptation is a universal experience, and learning to navigate these challenges is essential for maintaining purity. There’s not a shred of scriptural evidence that it’s a sin to masturbate or to use devices such as vibrators, dildos, or masturbation sleeves.

Strategies:

Avoid Tempting Situations: Identifying and avoiding environments or triggers that lead to temptation.
Accountability: Partnering with trusted friends or mentors for support and encouragement.
Prayer and Scripture: Seeking God’s strength and wisdom through prayer and meditation on biblical truths.

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18. Practical Tips for Maintaining Sexual Purity

Maintaining sexual purity involves cultivating healthy habits and attitudes that align with biblical principles.

Practices:

Guard Your Mind: Filling your thoughts with positive, uplifting content.
Cultivate Healthy Relationships: Building strong connections with friends and family.
Seek God’s Guidance: Praying for wisdom and discernment in all areas of life.

Our thoughts influence our words and our actions. When we keep our thoughts pure (2 Corinthians 10:5, Philippians 4:8), then we’re less likely to have improper words and actions. If we have sexual fantasies, it’s important to be sure that they won’t influence us toward improper words and actions.

19. Seeking Professional Help

When struggling with sexual addiction, compulsive behaviors, or other related issues, seeking professional help can provide valuable support and guidance.

Resources:

Counselors: Licensed therapists specializing in sexual health and addiction.
Support Groups: Communities of individuals sharing similar experiences.
Medical Professionals: Doctors or psychiatrists who can assess and treat underlying conditions.

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20. FAQ: Addressing Common Questions

Q1: Is masturbation explicitly forbidden in the Bible?

No, the Bible does not directly mention or forbid masturbation.

Q2: Does masturbation lead to addiction?

Masturbation can be addictive for some individuals, but this is not always the case.

Q3: Is it possible to masturbate without lusting?

Yes, it is possible to experience sexual pleasure without indulging in lustful thoughts.

Q4: How does masturbation affect marital relationships?

The impact varies depending on the couple’s communication, expectations, and individual needs.

Q5: Can masturbation be considered a natural expression of sexuality?

Some argue that it is a natural expression, while others believe it deviates from God’s plan for sex.

Q6: Is it sinful to experience sexual desire?

No, experiencing sexual desire is not inherently sinful, but it’s important to manage those desires in accordance with biblical principles.

Q7: How can I overcome sexual temptation?

Strategies include avoiding tempting situations, seeking accountability, and relying on prayer and scripture.

Q8: What should I do if I feel guilty after masturbating?

Reflect on the source of your guilt, seek guidance from religious leaders, and ensure your moral standards align with biblical principles.

Q9: Is there a connection between masturbation and demonic influence?

There is no explicit biblical evidence linking masturbation to demonic activity.

Q10: Where can I find support for maintaining sexual purity?

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Remember, the question of whether masturbation is a sin is complex and multifaceted. By carefully examining the arguments, scriptural context, and personal values, individuals can make informed decisions that align with their beliefs and promote spiritual well-being.

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